How Your Frustrations Could Become Your Guides

Friends, “What’s required appears to continually interfere with us getting what we want!” In an average day, I have a whole lotta wants: I want to be on time, and I am “required” to be in a traffic jam. I want my son to realize something obviously important – e.g., perspiration trumps inspiration – but … Continued

Which Habit Matters Most in Your Effectiveness

Friends, He was 79 when he fell from his bike on a steep road this past spring. Although he lost consciousness, there didn’t appear to be lasting damage.  But he fell ill at a family gathering in Idaho and died peacefully — a week ago today — surrounded by his wife and nine children. I … Continued

What Keeps You From Flying?

[audio:https://danmulhern.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/What-Keeps-You-From-Flying.mp3] Friends, What if you could fly, or maybe just consistently jump a little higher in life?  Would you follow me if I could show you  how to be a little bit better parent or boss or teacher or sales person?  One sure way is to find a thing you do that gets in your … Continued

How Could You Lead With $50?

Friends, How Could You Lead With $50 Leigha Beckman stunned me – in a happy way last week. She’s an intern and we’ve tasked her to bring a fresh, analytical approach to “Reading for Leading.” Next week we’ll send you her survey to help me keep RFL relevant and excellent for you. But last week, … Continued

Old Male Authority and Best Self Leadership

Friends, The great John Tenbusch, master teacher, philosopher and maybe part madman, would grit his teeth so hard you could hear the grinding from the last seat in room 214 of University of Detroit High School. Through clenched jaw he would growl, “Damn it _____ [insert terrified frosh’s name here]. I didn’t teach you that.” … Continued

Not Just a Follower

Not Just a Follower Friends, Today, I share outrage and a quick refresher. The outrage:  Here’s what happens: the Detroit Tigers lose, and we blame the authorities.  I’m guilty of this.  I didn’t see why the Tigers manager Jim Leyland put Schlereth in for Scherzer.  But hey, take your pick: from an owner, president, GM, … Continued

Freelancing

Friends, I heard from two Romanians, a Hungarian, Venezuelan, Pakistani, and one American.  I ran an experiment that shed an eerie light on the book that Jennifer and I have coming out in three weeks, and it also reinforced my thinking about the importance of this “Everyday Leadership” I keep writing about. The story:  I wanted … Continued

Leader Seduction

Friends, Last week just about EVERYONE got sick of Congress.  Hopefully, this week, they’ll give us some medicine to get over our sickness.  ASIDE from the politics – and I’m biting my partisan tongue – I believe there is a big lesson relevant to our Everyday Leadership.  There is both bipartisan evidence of good leadership … Continued

Everyday Leadership – Everyday Followership

Friends, So, we’re out here in far away California. Our house feels like a summer cottage – lots of wood and windows-to-nature and walls that don’t require northern insulation – and we feel like we’re on vacation. Classes don’t start until late August. Jack’s cool with summer. Jennifer and I are a bit too Type-A. … Continued

Arnold could learn something from Dan

The Detroit News If any political couple had a right to lash out at Arnold Schwarzenegger for fathering a child with a member of his household staff, it is former Gov. Jennifer Granholm and her husband Daniel Mulhern. Not only do the two former governors have a lot in common — both could have been … Continued

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